A Curse & a Blessing

My journal entries leading up to the day of my termination for thanatophoric dysplasia. By Caden’s Mother   January 14 Everyone gets theirs. I went to the doctor today for what I thought would be one of many routine visits. He pulled a piece of paper out of...

I Remember

I know many believe that he is elsewhere looking over us. I used to believe things like this, before it was my son who died. By Jeanmarie Some days are OK. Not great but OK. I love my husband and I love my living son, Alexander. But that doesn’t change that my Gabriel...

Just One

Making peace with having “just one” child can be very healthy. By Jennifer The decision to end my pregnancy in 2006 came two days after my now twelve year old daughter, Hannah’s, sixth birthday. She was excited for the arrival of her baby sister, Emily. At...

Peanut: One Dad’s Story

The incidence is approximately 1 in 10,000 births and is the most common lethal bone dysplasia. By Doug I only wanted a healthy child (ten fingers and ten toes was what I always told everyone that asked, and I meant it) but my wife was really hoping for a girl. You...