Mother’s Advice

Each time I became pregnant, my mother would get this look on her face. Then she would tell me straight up, “If your tests come back positive for Down syndrome, terminate the pregnancy.” By Carrie U. Terminating a pregnancy after a diagnosis of Down...

Q&A: What About Miracles Though?

If a good outcome with a given prenatal diagnosis is the least bit common, what is “awe inspiring” about it? Have a question for Ending a Wanted Pregnancy? Email us. Q: I stumbled across your website while surfing the Internet.  Don’t you have a...

Us and Them

“I wondered when I walked to the podium and everyone clapped, what would they think if they knew I had terminated three pregnancies?” By Katie I am the parent of a child with disabilities, but I feel I sometimes struggle around other parents with children...

Cookie Cutter Grief Support

Our grief is not necessarily alike. By Grace O. We all feel exactly this. I was scooting around on the Internet the other day when I spotted this bit of well-intentioned but less-than-helpful advice in group for those who’ve aborted wanted pregnancies for medical...

Never Say Never

The vast majority of people claiming they “would never” haven’t faced this choice. They’re not morally superior, just ignorant and lucky. by Grace O. It happens to most of us sooner or later. You reveal the details of your heartbreaking decision to a trusted friend,...